i recently aquired a new gourami for my tank, i belive they are paradise gourami, i already had one in the tank, i know i was supposed to wait a bit, but i dont plan to put anything else in for a bit now.
well my question is this, i walked in the room today to find them doing something weird, like a dance almost, one at a time they would flare there fins, all well swimming in a circle(very close to each other). can any one tell me what i am looking at? should i worry? the one that was already there seems to be chasing the newbie around a bit also, but i have noticed all of them do that when adding fish, especially of the same kind.

someone suggested they might be doing a mating rituel, someone else said that his male beat the pp outta his female cause she didnt want to get it on just yet, that "males ALWAYS want to get some, and sometimes the females arent always ready", what should i do? any suggestions? the males seems to be peking at the female quite a bit, and she keeps just lieing low on the tank bottom, any suggestions would be much appreciated.