Thank you Jay. OK let me see if I can answer some of these.
My tank is a 55 gallon that has been established for maybe 6-8 months. The tests I took today showed: PH above 8.8 (tester wouldn't go any higher), amonia 0, nitrate 200+, nitrites .5, TH 25, and alkalinity 300+. Our water is well water from a company called Aqua Source TX that is awful! I have a pool and the readings on it are always really high on everything as well.

The only chemicals I use are Aqua Safe when I add water or do a water change and I did the Prime when I did the 40% water change a few days ago as well. That's all that has been or is ever added. I've tried most of the PH lower chemicals and none have ever worked but that's been years ago. Will aquarium salt help with the PH?
I feed the fish twice a day.. about a pinch of flakes both times. I have 10 fish and don't do water changes very often at all, which could be part of my problem.